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Ruin the Party is educational. It is not a replacement for emergency services, law enforcement, medical care or professional crisis support. The people below are.

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Organizations already doing this work

Ruin the Party is a phrase and a push. These are the people with programs, training and twenty years of evidence. Use them.

  • College students and campus chapters

    It's On Us

    The largest nonprofit program for college sexual assault prevention, with student-led chapters on more than 500 campuses teaching consent, bystander intervention and survivor support. Started in 2014 out of the White House task force on campus sexual assault.

    itsonus.org

  • Coaches and athletic programs

    Coaching Boys Into Men

    A program from Futures Without Violence: twelve fifteen-minute talks a coach has with his team over a season about respect, relationships and stepping in. Evaluated in a CDC-funded study and recommended by the CDC. Coaches get a free card series.

    coachescorner.org

  • Schools, colleges and communities

    Green Dot

    The bystander program that gave everyone the three ways to step in: do it yourself, get somebody else, or break the moment. Run by Alteristic.

    alteristic.org

  • Anyone raising, coaching or leading boys

    A Call to Men

    Training and material on healthy, respectful manhood. They coined the Man Box, the set of rules boys are handed about what a man is allowed to be, and they have worked with the NFL, the NBA, MLB and the military.

    acalltomen.org

  • Youth programs and trainers

    MCSR (Men Can Stop Rape)

    Since 1997, programs for young men built around healthy masculinity and the idea that strength is for protecting people.

    mcsr.org

  • Everyone

    RAINN

    The nation's largest anti-sexual-violence organization. Plain explanations of consent, the law state by state, and what to do after an assault.

    rainn.org

Numbers and addresses on this page were read from each organization’s own site on October 1, 2026. If one has changed, tell us and we will fix it the same day.